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In today’s still competitive job market the interview still remains on of the most stressful aspects of job hunting for the job seeker. Sitting across from the first, and one of the most important people the job seeker will have to make a favorable impression on.
As foreboding as it may seem there are actually several actions that can be put into play to make the interview not so stressful; and in fact something that will more enjoyable, if not informative about the position you are seeking. As a fellow job seeker, I can also attest to how frustrating, if not scary interviews can be at times (especially if it’s for a position you really, really want.)
Four tips to maximizing your potential at Interviews
1. Finding your passion I guess it would be a bit needless to say, your best bet at growing your potential at any interview would be before the interview, and that by applying and going for job positions your not only qualified for; but also have a passion for. Of course this requires a bit of reflection apart from sifting through online job boards, or even applying in person. Here are some questions to reflect upon in the search for a career that helps a person fulfill their passion, rather than just find a simple job:
- What makes me happy?
- What adjectives would people who know me use to describe me?
- What are my core values in life?
- What is my definition of success?
- What things at work am I good at accomplishing?
- What things at work do I hate?
- What do I want to be known for?
- What would be the description of my “perfect job”?With what kind of people would I be working?
- How would my work benefit me?
- How would my work benefit other people?
- How would my work make me feel?
Take the time out to go to a place where you can find quiet to reflect and honestly answer these questions. Being successful at whatever you chose means taking out the time to find what your truly passionate about, and that passion extends into your work where it will come across clearly not only to you, but also to those you work with.
2. Do as much research as you can on your targeted companies/job openings.
Once you’ve found that passion, that position that wakes you up every morning, and even keeps you up late (sometimes). Do as much research as you can about the position your going for. What do you as a job seeker bring to the table that allows you to stand out from others. Your research will also help you during the interview where you will face some very tough questioning from the hiring manager, for example one infamous question I’m sure we’ve all had to answer ( and even get briefly stuck on..) is ” Why do you want to work here?” Of course, for many of us the the first answer that springs to mind ( sometimes sarcastically) is, ‘I need a job’. As true as that may be, it actually says nothing about you that helps you to stand out as a good candidate for a position that hundreds of others are applying for.. and they also share your sentiment of needing a job.
Being prepared for a job interview, not only concerning what skills you bring to the postition, but also why you are pursuing it will boost your chances of standing out among other job applicants.
This short story is an excerpt from my upcoming book, “Church Bells”. I wanted to to write a series of short stories to begin to introduce the characters and their background.
All her training had finally come to this moment, for Humble this would be her most challenging test so far in her training. Since she could remember Humble and her siblings; Tegina, Chad, and Donte have trained in Ninjitsu under the instruction of their father Mr. Mohammed. Mr. Mohammed was careful to pick tests that were not only challenging and fun for them, but also tested them in something they feared, or saw as an obstacle. Humble’s oldest siblings Tegina and Chad had earlier completed thier first tests. They both passed with flying colors, Tegina’s test was that she had to go on a three-day quest to fulfill a set of tasks known only to her and Mr. Muhammed. She returned exhausted, but had the biggest smile on her face. Chad’s challenge was just as exhausting, it consisted of one of the most extreme obstacle courses the children had ever seen; complete with rotating platforms, a small pond he had to swim, booby traps, and a small make shift fort to infiltrate without rousing the guards (Humble, Tegina, Donte, and Mr. Muhammed).
Humble’s test was no less difficult, and now she stood there staring at one of the most difficult challenges she had ever faced as a young ninja. There wasn’t much Humble feared, what few things she did she kept to herself. This however was different, she had to climb a 12 foot wall. Padded ‘logs’ were set up to swing across the length of the wall designed to knock the unwary climber off. On top of that 2 feet from the top blocks within the wall were set up to extend alternatively, creating platforms that appeared and disappeared. Letting out a breath, Humble adjusted her hijab and mentally prepared herself for the climb.
“Are you ready?” Mr. Muhammed asked. Humble turned to her father, and before she could say anything he gave the signal for her to begin her test that would challenge her and everything she had so far learned. As she began, Humble kept in mind what her father taught her about climbing. “It’s not a race, take your time… every step, hand hold and foot placement has a purpose…”. She was also careful not to look down. Before she knew it she had reached the halfway mark, and could see. A log swung close to her nearly knocking her off, Humble struggled to regain her composure and nearly got knocked off a second time by a second had she not pressed her small lithe body against the wall. Humble stopped short of the extending blocks, ” How am i going to get past these?” She thought briefly. She soon came up with a remedy, she had watched her mother play Super Mario Bros. so many times, and from that she had an awesome idea. She could time the extending blocks and use them as platforms to jump from to the other. ” Why not? It’s worth a try.”
Humble continued to climb until she was close to the first block, and after taking a deep breath launched herself to it, and scrabbling on top. She had mere seconds to jump to the next, and wasted no time in keeping time to keep from tumbling off. Before she realized it Humble was near the top, and pulled herself to the top. Standing up to get a full view of her accomplishment, she almost lost her balance from the dizzying height. At the base of the wall she could see her sister, brothers and father looking up at her. Chad, Tegina, and Donte (her youngest brother) were clapping and cheering for her. This was Humble’s proudest moment. She had conquered something she had been training to achieve for so long, and felt like dancing… of course she didn’t for fear of falling.
Author Stefanie Newell shares how she knew she was a writer in her younger years.
While I love being a writer there are times where I do tend to take myself far too seriously. Of course I’m not saying this profession is easy, actually it can be very demanding. The more devoted, and the more you love every aspect of your job; the more demands you find yourself trying to fulfill.
When I first started to embark upon becoming a writer I really had no idea as to the reality of a writers daily habits in order to be truly successful, something I’m still working to get down myself. I’ve also made many ‘newbie’ mistakes, the first was signing up and attempting to work with content mills. I soon learned that while content mills provide plenty of work for those who are in need of it, which is good for those who are willing to deal with the literally writing for pennies, and dealing with ridiculously short deadlines which leave very little time for properly researching and writing quality material.
Needless to say I kicked the Content mill bug fairly quickly. As many other writers I’ve interacted with have also commented, you’ll find work; but you seldom are given the opportunity to put your best into the projects you take on.
I’ve learned to take my writing ‘not so’ serious. In other words while some people may find it better to produce quantities of content for pennies, Quality is always better. I’m not saying don’t worry about deadlines, rather not allowing them to take life out of the work that we do as writers.
One of the first things I learned as a Freelance writer is to overcome my shyness, and fear of rejection. While it seems easy enough from the outside looking in, you actually have to develop a pretty thick skin in order to become successful. Apart from the researching, writing, submitting queries, and and interacting with fellow freelancers and editors; for someone as shy as myself it can be scary place when your inexperienced.
This can also apply to other career fields besides writing, in fact, even in actively seeking employment the average person goes through a cycle of rejection that can make the entire process seem like a mountain he/she is reluctant to climb. So what’s the remedy? At some point and time in our careers (… or search of one), social life and other aspects of our lives we are bound to face some rejection; surely there are steps to overcome them when they happen.
Three basic steps towards facing rejection
While it might seem like a daunting task to stare rejection in the eye without allowing it to overcome you, it really isn’t as bad as, or overwhelming as it appears.
1. Not all forms of rejection are personal, but rather some maybe forms of useful criticism – When that job interview you thought went so well, actually doesn’t turn up helping you get your foot in the door, it could be a number of other factors behind it beyond your control. The firsts step to controlling a fear is to first be at peace with it.
2. Allow rejection to guide you, often times it isn’t a no, but rather a redirection to try something new, or work on something that you’ve been neglecting.
3. Realize that not everything that you set out as goals are expected to come automatically, progress takes time, as well as patience. If something doesn’t go the way you expect it, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve failed.
These steps aren’t set in stone of course, however they are steps I’ve learned in dealing with personal rejection as well as the advice I’ve taken from various other sources. These three steps I feel were beginning steps to help, and I hope they do. Facing rejection can be a seriously trying thing if not approached with a change in attitude, a new way of looking at it; it can quickly become overwhelming. It can also be turned around and used for motivation, and that is where the steps presented come into play.
It’s been a while since I’ve posted a blog to Writing Elite, and I do apologize to all my readers. I’ve sort of slowed down on my writing to concentrate on finding other potential sources of income. While I love to write it hasn’t been going so well for me in terms of paying bills. Doesn’t mean I’ve given up, just means I’ve redirected some of my priorities. In doing so, I kind of lost track of why I started this blog. It wasn’t to get rich, or become a best selling author (would be nice though) rather to further strengthen my abilities as a writer, build a following and supply to the world a need that only I as an individual could fulfill with the gifts given to me.
A fellow freelancer, and good friend of mine told me while we were discussing the hardships that accompany this type of work (Freelancing, whether it’s writing or any other craft) said something that struck out to me as significant. She said to keep riding the roller coaster, because I had something unique to offer the world. It was something I needed to hear at the time, from my perspective there are many great writers out there, much better than myself. However, there’s only one ME, only one Me with my unique outlook on the world around my that can give a fresh interpretation to what I create in terms of writing and literature that the world may need.
So while I’m struggling, and putting forth my best effort to find a job to help supplement my income, I’ve also come to realize I can’t allow it to over shadow what I may have to offer in my gifts and abilities as a writer… besides all my fans, and readers have expressed some sorrow in my absence which makes me feel like loser in some ways, like I’ve given up. Well I haven’t and there will be more to come from Writing Elite soon. :)